kalibane wrote:Like I said. The biggest problem is people aren't listening. I'm going to forgive your tone in that last post because of your passion on the issue. But you are not listening.
Now Kaepernick spoke with reporters for 18 minutes on Sunday. He spoke at length. He didn't dodge, he didn't obfuscate, he didn't hedge. He answered every question that was asked in a frank, intelligent and direct manner, something that is pretty uncharacteristic for him actually. If you haven't watched this question and answer session go watch it. If you have and still don't understand why he's protesting then it's because you choose not to understand because it certainly isn't hard and you are certainly intelligent enough to grasp it if you care to.
Now as it relates to what you said about my last post. I was trying to help you understand why a lot of black people don't feel the same way as you do about the flag and about the anthem. If you didn't get it then maybe I didn't do a very good job. But make no mistake, I was explaining. I wasn't presenting an argument. It's not up for debate. I'm telling you how it is and how a large portion of the black community feels. So no, I am not "grasping at straws".
It doesn't matter that Jim Crow, Internment Camps and Slavery don't exist anymore. Like I said I was using those examples to illustrate the flaw in your logic. The fact that those things no longer exist does not change the logic. And if it was flawed then it is flawed now because logic is logic. There are rules. Those rules don't change.
Furthermore, whether people actually went through those things or not, our values are informed by not just our experience, but by history and by what our families went through. I have friends with living relatives who were sharecroppers. My father who served 26 years in the Air Force, 2 tours in Vietnam and then worked the rest of his career in the VA as a vocational rehabilitation officer in order to help vets, had to ride in the back of the bus when he went to boot camp. Do you honestly think he felt the same way about America as your father? Do you honestly think he went out of his way to instill the belief about the greatness of America like your Father? Of course not because to him America was not as great as it was for your father. Now he didn't run down America, he had pride in America, but it was not as intense because of what he experienced.
You think Kaepernick is arrogant and uniformed because he doesn't understand the country, the flag or the Anthem in the same way you understand it. I'm also betting you've never had a gun pulled and pointed at your head in a routine traffic stop as he has. So it is also arrogant and uninformed for you to act like you understand racism and how it has affected him and other minorities in the way he or other minorities do. You don't get to determine how trivial racism is. You don't get to say well Jim Crow doesn't exist so it's not as bad as it used to be even though you can be shot with impunity like Philando Castille or Jon Crawford or Tamir Rice.
It is long past time that people stop thinking their experience and their feelings speak for everyone. The hashtag #Veterans for Kaepernick has been trending #1 on Twitter for about 15-20 hours which is not insignificant if you have no experience with Twitter. There are many people who don't feel the same way as you about this issue and while that doesn't require you to feel that way too it's time that you accept that other people aren't required to feel the same way as you either. And when they don't it's not a character deficiency or a lack of intelligence or wrong in anyway.
"I cannot stand and sing the anthem. I cannot salute the flag. I know that I am a black man in a white world." - Jackie Robinson 1972 (After Jim Crow, segregation, interment camps were over).
No tone intended, Kal. I'm actually not excited at all. We were friends before this issue arose and we'll be friends afterwards.
Good thing you didn't bet any money, because you would have lost. I have had a gun pulled on me by a cop during what I thought was a traffic stop. No lie, it happened in Spokane and they were looking for a suspect that had held up a Circle K, and my car fit the description. It was 1975, and I was underage and had been drinking. I made the mistake of getting out of the car as I was told it helped show the cop that you weren't drunk.
I won't pretend to understand what it means to be a non white in this society, but I do think I have a little better grasp than most people in my demographic group as for nearly 40 years, I've worked with, partied with, slept with, about 70% minorities or people that weren't born in this country by virtue of my being a supervisor of mostly unskilled and semi skilled laborers. My only daughter (that I know of) is half Hispanic and my only two nephews are half black. Like you, I am a student of history, and unlike you, I grew up during the civil rights movement. So I don't think it's fair on your part to make an assumption about just what experiences I've had or haven't had over the course of my 61 years on this planet.
I'm not sure what part of my logic it is that you claim to be flawed. Was it my logic that the flag represents all of us, or was it that Kaep's actions has caused himself to become radioactive?
I don't doubt that Kaepernick as since articulated his protest. He had to have, as his first explanation was completely inadequate. Not having read or heard what he's said lately, I'm sure that now, after he's had the chance to really think about it and draw on examples such as Jim Crow and Japanese internment, that he has come up what sounds like a very thoughtful creed.
One thing I do know for sure is that this protest of his is not uniting us, it's dividing us. There's other ways of expressing yourself or bringing an issue to light without using a middle finger. It's not that I disagree with all or any protests or demonstrations, but this one is extremely polarizing. IMO some if not most of the organized BLM protests turned out extremely well, with white cops crossing the yellow tape and embracing black protesters. That type of acceptance/understanding forwards things.