c_hawkbob wrote:Best. Article. Ever.
http://www.nfl.com/news/story/0ap2000000317035/article/richard-sherman-perfect-as-the-face-of-super-bowl-xlviii
kalibane wrote:That's actually a pretty salient point and I'll do you one better. What Sherman did offers you a teaching opportunity when it comes to kids. It really just isn't that big a deal to me.
I ENCOURAGE my children to be themselves, if that means they don't fit a cookie cutter mold society wants to see or hear, then tough for society. Everyone doesn't like everyone, pretending otherwise is silly.....
kalibane wrote:That's actually a pretty salient point and I'll do you one better. What Sherman did offers you a teaching opportunity when it comes to kids. It really just isn't that big a deal to me.
burrrton wrote:I ENCOURAGE my children to be themselves, if that means they don't fit a cookie cutter mold society wants to see or hear, then tough for society. Everyone doesn't like everyone, pretending otherwise is silly.....
Ugghhhh- I'm not saying this to try to tell you how to raise your children, but: watch it with kids.
Teaching them to "be themselves" is great, but teaching them about society's conventions, and how to pay attention to them, is a *very* useful life skill, too.
kalibane wrote:I would argue that if someone doesn't have a "teacher" present to put things in the proper perspective that Richard Sherman going a little to far in a post game interview is the least of that child's problems and seeing him be not the best sportsman in the world isn't going to be a turning point in their life.
kalibane wrote:I would argue that if someone doesn't have a "teacher" present to put things in the proper perspective that Richard Sherman going a little to far in a post game interview is the least of that child's problems and seeing him be not the best sportsman in the world isn't going to be a turning point in their life.
HumanCockroach wrote:LOL. Darrelle Revis... Same day, says Sherman shouldn't be himself, and then says that Schiano failed because he didn't let his players be themselves...... LOL. Pretty much sums up how I feel about society in general. Be yourself, unless of course "yourself" isn't exactly like me.......
Sure, but questioning societies conventions is a "very" useful life skill as well.
I would rather my children be themselves and are liked or disliked for who and what they are every single time, than be shallow and phony, and not true to themselves in every single instance regardless.
burrrton wrote:Sure, but questioning societies conventions is a "very" useful life skill as well.
Only at the appropriate age. Small children can't "question" effectively.
Teach them critical thinking. "Questioning" everything at too young an age translates to *rejection* of every convention, including those that are either useful (obeying laws, etc) or those that can simply make life easier (don't use the word "f***" around people, etc).I would rather my children be themselves and are liked or disliked for who and what they are every single time, than be shallow and phony, and not true to themselves in every single instance regardless.
I'm not going to argue with you, because for all I know maybe you're treading the line perfectly, but I'll just say it's not being "shallow and phony" to refrain from foul language in inappropriate settings, or to smile and shake the hand of the person you may not really care for, and so on.
That's thinking in too "black and white" language. You can be a pleasant participant in society without being a Stepford Citizen.
burrrton wrote:Sure, but questioning societies conventions is a "very" useful life skill as well.
Only at the appropriate age. Small children can't "question" effectively.
Teach them critical thinking, not simply rejecting every given. "Questioning" everything at too young an age translates to *rejection* of every convention, including those that are either useful (obeying laws, etc) or those that can simply make life easier (don't use the word "f***" around people, etc).
Learning that there are frameworks for life is comforting for kids. Don't deny your child that.I would rather my children be themselves and are liked or disliked for who and what they are every single time, than be shallow and phony, and not true to themselves in every single instance regardless.
I'm not going to argue with you, because for all I know maybe you're treading the line perfectly, but I'll just say it's not being "shallow and phony" to refrain from foul language in inappropriate settings, or to smile and shake the hand of the person you may not really care for, and so on.
That's thinking in too "black and white" language. You can be a pleasant participant in society (and your kids will end up more successful for it!) without being a Stepford Citizen.
kalibane wrote:I would argue that if someone doesn't have a "teacher" present to put things in the proper perspective that Richard Sherman going a little to far in a post game interview is the least of that child's problems and seeing him be not the best sportsman in the world isn't going to be a turning point in their life.
RiverDog wrote:kalibane wrote:I would argue that if someone doesn't have a "teacher" present to put things in the proper perspective that Richard Sherman going a little to far in a post game interview is the least of that child's problems and seeing him be not the best sportsman in the world isn't going to be a turning point in their life.
Agreed. If a kid is that impressionable, it's likely that he's going to be influenced by something or someone else if not Sherman.
But nevertheless, when you consider how many viewers saw that rant, ie in the millions, if it adversely affected even a tiny percentage of kids, that number would be in the hundreds if not thousands, and I personally am not going to condone that kind of public behavior and will call it out when I see it.
savvyman wrote:RiverDog wrote:kalibane wrote:I would argue that if someone doesn't have a "teacher" present to put things in the proper perspective that Richard Sherman going a little to far in a post game interview is the least of that child's problems and seeing him be not the best sportsman in the world isn't going to be a turning point in their life.
Agreed. If a kid is that impressionable, it's likely that he's going to be influenced by something or someone else if not Sherman.
But nevertheless, when you consider how many viewers saw that rant, ie in the millions, if it adversely affected even a tiny percentage of kids, that number would be in the hundreds if not thousands, and I personally am not going to condone that kind of public behavior and will call it out when I see it.
Sorry Riverdog - it's too late - this is going viral - I foresee the spawning of a whole new generation of trash talking Villains - LoL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6kRB1_nGqM
LOB
RiverDog wrote:Here's what John Madden had to say about it, and of which I concur with both of his points, ie kids and teammates:
“I think it's too much,” Madden said on Sirius XM (via PFT). “To me, it was kind of embarrassing. . . . Kids are watching this, and kids copy the players. I have grandkids and I know that they do because I see them. If a player is wearing a certain color gloves, they have to have that color gloves. A player two weeks ago wore red shoes, I had a grandson came to the game and he had to wear red shoes. The jerseys -- they wear the jerseys and they copy everything those guys do. And to be a great one, they don't know which things they should copy, and they think that's how they have to play. I think if any apologies ought to be made, it ought to be to the kids. That's not the way we do it. ... I thought it was embarrassing.”
To Sherman's credit, he's since apologized for making the moment about him and not his team, which was one of Madden's criticisms.
“He took away a lot from the other players on his team," Madden said. "Guys played their butts off, guys coached their butts off, and pass rushed and tackled and special teams, and then it got to be all about one guy. In a team sport, that's wrong."
kalibane wrote:I saw Madden's comments. Madden.... who made his career off of being the head coach of the ultimate bad boys in NFL History, the Oakland Raiders. The Al Davis in his full splendor "Just Win Baby" Oakland Raiders. Lester Hayes, Jack Tatum Ted Hendricks Oakland Raiders.
John Madden crticizing Richard Sherman for this is like the former CEO of Hostess telling people kids shouldn't eat Oreos because they have too much sugar.
HumanCockroach wrote:Do as we say Rott, not as we do........... LOL
Futureite wrote:Honestly, I am not ignoring anyone's posts. I actually figured I'd stay away from your board to avoid criticizing a player you all love. Who wants that during SB week = my logic. Also, I voiced my opinion and do not continually want to revisit a negative topic. But since this thread has the most replies and a couple people actually wanted me to reply, I will.
I do not care if Sherman graduated from Stanford. For christ sakes there are white collar criminals in every state in the union that have degrees from Cal, Chicago School of law, you name it. I don't care if he gives his entire salary to charity. I've seen some of the biggest scam artists on earth repirt donations of millions to charity, literally - no exageration. None of that excuses the way he's antagonized, belittled and insulted multiple people.
I don't respect a guy that screams in Tom Brady's face and revels in it afterwards like he did something cool. I don't respect a guy that gets on an intensely personal level with a reporter and demeans him on television. I don't respect a guy that runs over to pat a player on the ass and extend his hand 2 seconds after his season ends, and then uses the post game interview as a platform to elevate himself and degrade his opponent's ability to perform his profession. I'm tired of the dumb excuses for this guy, and I'm tired of seeing guys like him play the race card to deflect criticism. I don't respect much about the way he carries himself, and the nonstop excuses for it are getting real old.
You guys love him, that's your choice. Sorry I do not. And my reasons are just as valid as yours.
kalibane wrote:I saw Madden's comments. Madden.... who made his career off of being the head coach of the ultimate bad boys in NFL History, the Oakland Raiders. The Al Davis in his full splendor "Just Win Baby" Oakland Raiders. Lester Hayes, Jack Tatum Ted Hendricks Oakland Raiders.
John Madden crticizing Richard Sherman for this is like the former CEO of Hostess telling people kids shouldn't eat Oreos because they have too much sugar.
RiverDog wrote:kalibane wrote:I saw Madden's comments. Madden.... who made his career off of being the head coach of the ultimate bad boys in NFL History, the Oakland Raiders. The Al Davis in his full splendor "Just Win Baby" Oakland Raiders. Lester Hayes, Jack Tatum Ted Hendricks Oakland Raiders.
John Madden crticizing Richard Sherman for this is like the former CEO of Hostess telling people kids shouldn't eat Oreos because they have too much sugar.
The fact that he may be a hypocrite doesn't mean he's wrong.
Futureite wrote:Honestly, I am not ignoring anyone's posts. I actually figured I'd stay away from your board to avoid criticizing a player you all love. Who wants that during SB week = my logic. Also, I voiced my opinion and do not continually want to revisit a negative topic. But since this thread has the most replies and a couple people actually wanted me to reply, I will.
I do not care if Sherman graduated from Stanford. For christ sakes there are white collar criminals in every state in the union that have degrees from Cal, Chicago School of law, you name it. I don't care if he gives his entire salary to charity. I've seen some of the biggest scam artists on earth repirt donations of millions to charity, literally - no exageration. None of that excuses the way he's antagonized, belittled and insulted multiple people.
I don't respect a guy that screams in Tom Brady's face and revels in it afterwards like he did something cool. I don't respect a guy that gets on an intensely personal level with a reporter and demeans him on television. I don't respect a guy that runs over to pat a player on the ass and extend his hand 2 seconds after his season ends, and then uses the post game interview as a platform to elevate himself and degrade his opponent's ability to perform his profession. I'm tired of the dumb excuses for this guy, and I'm tired of seeing guys like him play the race card to deflect criticism. I don't respect much about the way he carries himself, and the nonstop excuses for it are getting real old.
You guys love him, that's your choice. Sorry I do not. And my reasons are just as valid as yours.
HumanCockroach wrote:Futureite wrote:Honestly, I am not ignoring anyone's posts. I actually figured I'd stay away from your board to avoid criticizing a player you all love. Who wants that during SB week = my logic. Also, I voiced my opinion and do not continually want to revisit a negative topic. But since this thread has the most replies and a couple people actually wanted me to reply, I will.
I do not care if Sherman graduated from Stanford. For christ sakes there are white collar criminals in every state in the union that have degrees from Cal, Chicago School of law, you name it. I don't care if he gives his entire salary to charity. I've seen some of the biggest scam artists on earth repirt donations of millions to charity, literally - no exageration. None of that excuses the way he's antagonized, belittled and insulted multiple people.
I don't respect a guy that screams in Tom Brady's face and revels in it afterwards like he did something cool. I don't respect a guy that gets on an intensely personal level with a reporter and demeans him on television. I don't respect a guy that runs over to pat a player on the ass and extend his hand 2 seconds after his season ends, and then uses the post game interview as a platform to elevate himself and degrade his opponent's ability to perform his profession. I'm tired of the dumb excuses for this guy, and I'm tired of seeing guys like him play the race card to deflect criticism. I don't respect much about the way he carries himself, and the nonstop excuses for it are getting real old.
You guys love him, that's your choice. Sorry I do not. And my reasons are just as valid as yours.
Then maybe you should share those opinions on a board where people agree with you... just saying. Plenty here don't like the way he handled the situation, but as you CONTINUE to do, ignore the lead up to the play and the rant if you like ( which is what you continue to do) pretend like Crabtree, Brady, Bayless and the like didn't fire the "first shot" all you want, the fact remains they DID and Sherman responded. The end. You lose credibility when you ignore who and what was said prior to the reactions of a person. Crabs talked crap in the press the weak leading up to the game, not a good idea, and Sherman made sure he knew about it, just like Brady and Bayless. You want to focus on negative comments, I recommend starting where it started, not with who ended it, or had the last laugh, or who replied to it.
You have said it is only entertainment, then have an issue with this? It is only entertainment when people commit crimes, but is some sort of abysmal display when they respond in kind to statements made by another player? You have the gall to compare someone that talks trash to CRIMINALS in this very post....
When you admit Crabs was as much to blame for the escalation of that situation, maybe then I'll give your judgement some credence, since you refuse to acknowledge that Crabs played any part in it, your opinion is rubbish. Don't respect Sherman all you want Future, I'm sure he'll be losing sleep over it.... LMFAO.
Agent 86 wrote:That post has CP written all over it! The ability to ignore other posts that de-bunk your posts is truly a CP tactic. Future, you are quickly showing your true colors and if I thought you were a reasonable and honest guy I'd put up a hundo that you are the alter ego of CP!
You are starting to sound like a whiny B that doesn't have a leg to stand on and refuses to admit it. See ya next year and I hope your head coach finds it in him to not be such a ass clown on the side lines.
Futureite wrote:Futureite wrote:Honestly, I am not ignoring anyone's posts. I actually figured I'd stay away from your board to avoid criticizing a player you all love. Who wants that during SB week = my logic. Also, I voiced my opinion and do not continually want to revisit a negative topic. But since this thread has the most replies and a couple people actually wanted me to reply, I will.
I do not care if Sherman graduated from Stanford. For christ sakes there are white collar criminals in every state in the union that have degrees from Cal, Chicago School of law, you name it. I don't care if he gives his entire salary to charity. I've seen some of the biggest scam artists on earth repirt donations of millions to charity, literally - no exageration. None of that excuses the way he's antagonized, belittled and insulted multiple people.
I don't respect a guy that screams in Tom Brady's face and revels in it afterwards like he did something cool. I don't respect a guy that gets on an intensely personal level with a reporter and demeans him on television. I don't respect a guy that runs over to pat a player on the ass and extend his hand 2 seconds after his season ends, and then uses the post game interview as a platform to elevate himself and degrade his opponent's ability to perform his profession. I'm tired of the dumb excuses for this guy, and I'm tired of seeing guys like him play the race card to deflect criticism. I don't respect much about the way he carries himself, and the nonstop excuses for it are getting real old.
You guys love him, that's your choice. Sorry I do not. And my reasons are just as valid as yours.HumanCockroach wrote:Futureite wrote:Honestly, I am not ignoring anyone's posts. I actually figured I'd stay away from your board to avoid criticizing a player you all love. Who wants that during SB week = my logic. Also, I voiced my opinion and do not continually want to revisit a negative topic. But since this thread has the most replies and a couple people actually wanted me to reply, I will.
I do not care if Sherman graduated from Stanford. For christ sakes there are white collar criminals in every state in the union that have degrees from Cal, Chicago School of law, you name it. I don't care if he gives his entire salary to charity. I've seen some of the biggest scam artists on earth repirt donations of millions to charity, literally - no exageration. None of that excuses the way he's antagonized, belittled and insulted multiple people.
I don't respect a guy that screams in Tom Brady's face and revels in it afterwards like he did something cool. I don't respect a guy that gets on an intensely personal level with a reporter and demeans him on television. I don't respect a guy that runs over to pat a player on the ass and extend his hand 2 seconds after his season ends, and then uses the post game interview as a platform to elevate himself and degrade his opponent's ability to perform his profession. I'm tired of the dumb excuses for this guy, and I'm tired of seeing guys like him play the race card to deflect criticism. I don't respect much about the way he carries himself, and the nonstop excuses for it are getting real old.
You guys love him, that's your choice. Sorry I do not. And my reasons are just as valid as yours.
Then maybe you should share those opinions on a board where people agree with you... just saying. Plenty here don't like the way he handled the situation, but as you CONTINUE to do, ignore the lead up to the play and the rant if you like ( which is what you continue to do) pretend like Crabtree, Brady, Bayless and the like didn't fire the "first shot" all you want, the fact remains they DID and Sherman responded. The end. You lose credibility when you ignore who and what was said prior to the reactions of a person. Crabs talked crap in the press the weak leading up to the game, not a good idea, and Sherman made sure he knew about it, just like Brady and Bayless. You want to focus on negative comments, I recommend starting where it started, not with who ended it, or had the last laugh, or who replied to it.
You have said it is only entertainment, then have an issue with this? It is only entertainment when people commit crimes, but is some sort of abysmal display when they respond in kind to statements made by another player? You have the gall to compare someone that talks trash to CRIMINALS in this very post....
When you admit Crabs was as much to blame for the escalation of that situation, maybe then I'll give your judgement some credence, since you refuse to acknowledge that Crabs played any part in it, your opinion is rubbish. Don't respect Sherman all you want Future, I'm sure he'll be losing sleep over it.... LMFAO.
Players say x, y and z on the field all the time. They get in locker room fights, practice squad fights, fights in public you never hear about. 100's of times each year. Only a complete punk holds onto that like a 16 year old girl and waits, hoping to get a chance at publicly humiliating that person. So effing what, they got in a fight. Who cares?? The whole idea behind the whole fight thing is that's suppose to end it.
Hey, if you think Tom Brady deserved to have someone screaming in his face and picture of it tweeted, good on you. I don't care what he said on the field, you don't scream in a man's face and broadcast it afterwards. Only a complete jackass takes on the field trash talk that personal and makes it an off the field issue. If you think his narcissiatic rant on Bayless was deserved, well I think he sounded flustered, needy and pathetic.
Every person gets dissed, jilted or fucked with in life dude. ALL of us. If a guy cuts me off in the parking lot it doesn't give me free reign to scream at him in a crowded store and call him "sorry". Doesn't mean I take a picture and tweet me screaming at him. At some point you have to wonder why he has so many issues with so many people, from reporters, tobowl players, to "racists" on Twitte's not all them. At some point it just might be him.
kalibane wrote:Future,
If you don't want race to be part of the discussion then perhaps you should be taking issue with the people who went to their favorite social media to call him a "monkey" or an "N-word".
As for Sherman's thoughts on people calling him a "thug" I agree with him 100%... 100%. There are a lot of negative labels you can apply to Sherman but he meets zero of the criteria for being a "thug". There is no context to label him that way. None.
The man's life is the complete antithesis of "thug life". He wears a three piece suit with a bow tie to his press conference. So you can't blame his wardrobe. He has no criminal history. He has no violence in his history. He doesn't even use slang when he speaks. He can be a jerk, but there are a lot of jerks. Philip Rivers is a jerk and one of the biggest trash talkers in the game. No one has ever called him a thug. Cutler is a big time jerk. No one has ever called him a Thug. Or how about Christian Laettner, one of the most notorious jerks in sports, and no one calls him a thug despite the fact that he actually stomped on an opposing player. Calling him a thug is coded language plain and simple. Just like he said, the other day a hockey team lined up with the intention of fighting before the game even started... but he's the thug?
What you fail to realize... or I should say are pretending to not realize is that he's not blaming the negative reaction on race. He just said he's dissapointed in people for resorting to lazy stereotypes to express their negative reaction. I'm happy that he addressed it because there is absolutely an issue with this.
P.S. seriously stop talking about U Mad Bro already. Brady told them TOLD them come see him at the end of the game. He came and found him. Someone else took the picture and someone else created and uploaded the meme. He just re tweeted it because he thought it was funny. He wasn't "going after Brady".
kalibane wrote:Future,
If you don't want race to be part of the discussion then perhaps you should be taking issue with the people who went to their favorite social media to call him a "monkey" or an "N-word".
As for Sherman's thoughts on people calling him a "thug" I agree with him 100%... 100%. There are a lot of negative labels you can apply to Sherman but he meets zero of the criteria for being a "thug". There is no context to label him that way. None.
The man's life is the complete antithesis of "thug life". He wears a three piece suit with a bow tie to his press conference. So you can't blame his wardrobe. He has no criminal history. He has no violence in his history. He doesn't even use slang when he speaks. He can be a jerk, but there are a lot of jerks. Philip Rivers is a jerk and one of the biggest trash talkers in the game. No one has ever called him a thug. Cutler is a big time jerk. No one has ever called him a Thug. Or how about Christian Laettner, one of the most notorious jerks in sports, and no one calls him a thug despite the fact that he actually stomped on an opposing player. Calling him a thug is coded language plain and simple. Just like he said, the other day a hockey team lined up with the intention of fighting before the game even started... but he's the thug?
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