RiverDog wrote:If you look at it from that POV, I can agree. But I do think there were differences as to how I acquired my sense of responsibility and how today's immigrants acquired theirs. For example, of those I've encountered, immigrants have a desire for personal acceptance which motivates them, something I never had to worry about.
People usually don't directly tell you your culture. It's something you feel and absorb. I'm not sure who you were around when young, but I could feel the way men felt about a lazy SoB being around them. You did not want to be "that" guy.
The example was all around you of the work expectation. When talking to immigrants, the example of how a man is supposed to act is all around them.
We've lost that here. Even TV dads are different now. I recall watching TV shows where the dad was a prominent part of life with a very specific identity in the family. What does the modern American male learn about American culture from osmosis? That's the gist of what I'm trying to address.
You, me, and most of the older guys on this forum had all these great examples of hard working, tough, family-oriented males around us growing up whether our fathers, grandparents, or even popular culture and public life examples. What do these kids have? Even Hollywood males are way different than they used to be. It's no wonder why they are lazier and generally viewed as weaker with dropping levels of testosterone when the message seems to being male, especially a white male, is some kind of crime.
Those strong male figures are still prominent in immigrant culture from most nations. I hear all kinds of stories about the role of the father in their families setting the example for them. Much of what I here in America is divorce, cheating, women running the house, and the like. Just a very different environment than what we had to grow up in. Thus I'm less inclined to hammer on a bunch of young people who had such poor examples to follow. You could even argue women have even worse examples of womanhood with women like the Kardashians, popstars, and the like as their examples.
Let's just say American culture has fallen a long way from it's peak and seems to be continuing it's leftist crap gone too far cultural destruction. I'm glad I won't live to see the final nail in that coffin.