River Dog wrote:The women's movement started long before my generation, ie Baby Boomers born between 1946-1964. Women's suffrage began in the early part of the 20th century and culminated in the 19th amendment giving women the right to vote. They migrated into the workplace during WW2, with Rosie the Riveter taking over during the labor shortage created when 13 million men, roughly 10% of the entire US population at the time, went off to war. "The Pill", ie oral contraceptives, became readily available in the early 60's and further liberated women as it allowed them to have more control over their reproductive process, allowing them to attend college, pursue careers, etc instead of having to raise a family. That decline in the birth rate is what created the age disparity we struggle with today. All of that occurred while my generation was either nothing but a gleam in their daddy's eyes or when we were grade schoolers.
I've watched a number of Jack Nickolson's movies, but not those two. I'm not much into movies anymore, with most of my TV watching occupied by sports and documentaries.
The women's suffrage movement was older. The women in the work force during WW2 was a temporary necessity. The man-woman working at the same time creating the dual income household happened during the 60s (maybe the late 50s) and on. It changed the entire economy.
The women's liberation movement in its current form started after men started running out on their wives. Men destroyed the paradigm women had become accustomed to by deciding they wanted to use their income to pursue younger girlfriends and not follow in their father's footsteps. College age males of that time were definitely doing this. They were caught up in a big transition where the male could either follow in their father's footsteps marrying and settling down for life early or enjoy the free love generation.
I look at it as the difference from my grandfathers from the WW2 and Great Depression generation who were very much work and go home types that married for life generally. To your generation, which is around my father's age, who decided that married for life wasn't their bag and divorce became easy and common. They had control of the income and didn't feel like being tied down during the sexual liberation movement. Often married multiple times, dabbled in drugs, and suffered The Midlife Criss where you leave your wife, buy a motorbike, and get a younger girlfriend.
This is all historically documented. Men broke the trust first. Women responded once they found out what life was like when a man divorced them to pursue other women and they suddenly had to figure out how to raise kids with no job skills. They did not want to be trapped any longer in that paradigm. But you thinking they decided this "just because" is not how it went. Women must be motivated to make such moves. That motivation came from men deciding they didn't like the stay at home lifestyle any longer. It's like when women got tired of their husbands drinking too much and voted for Prohibition.
Contraceptives were more control over the reproduction. Men wanted to utilize reproduction and the purse strings to keep women in the homes. That's why I chuckle at American male's complaints about Islamic culture when they were doing much the same thing. They were keeping their wives in the dark. They controlled the purse strings which limited the female's ability to leave. They were happy with women socialized to pursue marriage over career handing over control to men and suffering the consequences of such until men decided they didn't feel like being tied down as much. Men created the women's liberation movement through their behavior.
I'd bet money you watched this in your generation as much as you play it down. Men leaving wives or knocking women up and not wanting to settle down. Then not taking proper care of their children while doing so. The free love and sexual liberation movement generation you lived through. Men were no longer interested in the married life, stay at home, watch Archie Bunker.
The 1960s and 70s. The transition generation. Men like to make it seem like the women demanded this without a reason. But they had a reason. Men no longer liked being the stuck at home male while all his buddies were out having fun. Women responded with the women's liberation movement.
As far as the age problem, seems to be less a problem with contraception and more a problem with modernization as every modern economy is dealing with it. With more stuff to do, less people want to be tied down with kids including men. Men benefitted from contraception as well as they didn't want to be tied down to kids. Just have free sexual fun with no consequences or as few as they could manage.
Your generation is the one that pushed this transition. Not sure why you want to claim you didn't. You were part of that generation that came to age in the 60s? The free love, sex, drugs, and rock n' roll? Peace and love, baby? I know you were on the other side of that, but your generation pushed these changes. You voted for them. You changed your behaviors. You started the multiple divorce trend. Your generation has to own these things. Your generation even started the heavy drug use.
The divorce didn't rise because women were pushed it. Women were not ready for the rise in divorce. They had to step into a workforce they were not accustomed to and carve out a space for themselves, often while having to figure out how to raise kids on a divorced woman's income.
You kids born in the 40s and 50s, then coming of age in the 60s gotta own these major societal changes you caused. It certainly wasn't your dad and mom pushing for this or acting like jackasses. They were raised in hard, hard times and stuck by each other whether they were happy or not often times. Your generation had some of the best economic times in America and decided, "Screw it, we're gonna party."
Snippet From the AI Machine:
The divorce rate in the United States, after steadily increasing since the mid-1800s, experienced a sharp rise in the 1960s and 1970s, driven by the widespread adoption of no-fault divorce laws. This trend culminated in a peak in the early 1980s, after which the overall rate began to decline, though it has seen increases in certain demographic groups.
Key Factors in the Rise:
No-Fault Divorce:
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The transition from requiring couples to prove fault (like adultery or cruelty) to allowing divorce based on "irreconcilable differences" significantly lowered the barrier to ending a marriage.
Changing Social Norms:
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The emphasis on personal fulfillment and happiness, alongside rising individualism, eroded the idea of marriage as a lifelong, indissoluble union. Increased Independence for Women:
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Women gained greater legal rights and more opportunities for self-support, making divorce a more viable option.
Legal Transformation:
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The legal system's shift towards a model that prioritized equitable asset division and child custody based on the child's best interests also played a role.
Timeline of the Rise:
Mid-1800s to 1950s: Divorce rates increased gradually from the mid-19th century until the mid-20th century.
1960s and 1970s: This period saw the most significant increase, often referred to as the "divorce revolution".
1980s: The divorce rate peaked in the early 1980s, with the rate more than doubling from 1960 to 1980.