c_hawkbob wrote:Everybody on his team knew.
Everybody at his school knew.
Most of the people in town knew and I find it quite interesting (and a testament to how the kid handles the situation) that to all these people it was a non-issue. It's even more significant that none of these people "outed" him.
It's news now cause it's new information. In very short order it'll be a non-issue for the rest of us.
Hawktawk wrote:Okay time for a little redneck perspective here. #1 one of Sams Missouri teammates has stated today in the social media that the locker room wasn't nearly as united as Sam makes everyone believe it was. #2 I don't respect this guy for trying to become some sort of transcendentalist type of figure.I really could care less about his or anyone's sexual preference or lifestyle. It seems ironic to me that Tebow got tarred and feathered for loving God and preaching abstinence and the rights of the unborn. Sherman was vilified for professing to be the best CB in the game. And we are supposed to fall all over this guy because he says he likes dudes? I don't want to hear about sex, whether its this attention hound or Jonathan and Ritchie's bawdy texts. Its a game. I'm sick of watching the NFL become some sort of a vehicle for social engineering. You want to be with a man? Just do it, don't hold a damn press conference.
#3And no I don't want our loaded repeat ready Seahawks drafting this guy. Talk about a media circus.He couldn't crack this lineup anyway.........
OK let the stereotypical labeling begin, I'm going to go watch some Duck Dynasty:-) Just kidding it will be sound FX.
Hawktawk wrote:Part of Sams coming out party was the reports that the media was about to "out" him via leaks, which is equally wrong. So in a sense he was between a rock and a hard place.He did the same thing a lot of politicians did. He got out ahead of the story to put his narrative on it, his spin. IMO it was a very calculated decision by a mid round pick(RW, Sherman type money) to either enhance his stock with the right GM or make potential millions off of his celebrity.
Hawktawk wrote:As I stated earlier there are comments from a teammate saying the locker room was definitely divided unlike the description Sam had given.
Hawktawk wrote:I do not think gays should "come out" anymore than I think heterosexuals should publicly discuss their favorite positions in the sack or their various conquests.
Seahawks4Ever wrote:1. Since he was the co-defensive player of the year and said he was projected as a "mid-round" prospect I took that for mid 1st. round. I would have thought the wording would have been "mid-draft".
2. As for the so-called redneck view, would it have been better or more honorable in your eyes if he would have announced he was gay AFTER he was drafted??? Or maybe you just wish he would have just stayed in the closet??
3. This has nothing to do with Tim Tebow or Richard Sherman, you are comparing apples and tiddly winks.
4. I still don't know why Tebow was so vilified. Just last week John Schneider gave all credit to Jesus Christ for our Super Bowl win as did earl Thomas and several other Seahawks. It was the media that followed Tebow around filming and recording everything he did or said. Besides the media Tebow had a huge fan following that seemed to want to worship him and to this day refuse to acknowledge that he lacked the talent to succeed in the NFL.
5. I agree that this kid couldn't crack the LOB(Sherman says it stands for the entire defense) but he would be a great fit in San Francisco.
briwas101 wrote:I can't wait for stuff like this to not be considered a big deal.
I don't think someone should be put down for being gay, nor do I think that people deserve extra praise for "coming out".
If a pro athlete came out as heterosexual would they be praised? Not at all.
If you're gay you're gay, that's the way it is.
I respect him for staying true to himself and for making it a fact that soon there will be at least one active football player who is gay (although i bet there's one on almost every team already).
I would have no problem with him being on our team, but I don't think he would ever play DE for us.
c_hawkbob wrote:Everybody on his team knew.
Everybody at his school knew.
Most of the people in town knew and I find it quite interesting (and a testament to how the kid handles the situation) that to all these people it was a non-issue. It's even more significant that none of these people "outed" him.
It's news now cause it's new information. In very short order it'll be a non-issue for the rest of us.
kalibane wrote:This is also why he's not particularly courageous btw. The story was going to be a story one way or the other. He's just taking control of it.
kalibane wrote:I don't think the comparison with Tebow is valid. As you've gone over many times Riv, Tebow just didn't come out and tell everyone "I'm a Christian". Like I've said many times, there are a ton of devout Christians in the NFL. Our own Russell Wilson and (previously) Jon Kitna among them.
Tebow actively traded on the media concocted messiah image and helped to fuel it at every opportunity to leverage his employment opportunities.
There are two major differences here. 1. "Coming Out" is not going to help his draft stock. It only has the potential of hurting it. Regardless as to whether people are actually homophobic or wether they just want to limit distractions in the lockerroom there will be GMs who take him off their draft board for only this reason and no one is going to move him up. 2. While people are talking about how it was neat that he was out to his team already and generally speaking the locker room and community was okay with it and supported him, realize this, it's exactly because he was out locally that there is ZERO chance this story doesn't come out between now in the draft. 32 scouting departments will be combing through these guys backrounds for the next 3 months and it's only a matter of time before he gets outed. But from his point of view, you might as well just get out ahead of it.
Now if he starts leading every interview with reminders that he's gay and figures out a way to leverage that into a job opportunity that he in no way deserves then he's Tebow. For now he's just a guy who owned up to what he was.
This is also why he's not particularly courageous btw. The story was going to be a story one way or the other. He's just taking control of it.
c_hawkbob wrote:Hawktawk wrote:Part of Sams coming out party was the reports that the media was about to "out" him via leaks, which is equally wrong. So in a sense he was between a rock and a hard place.He did the same thing a lot of politicians did. He got out ahead of the story to put his narrative on it, his spin. IMO it was a very calculated decision by a mid round pick(RW, Sherman type money) to either enhance his stock with the right GM or make potential millions off of his celebrity.
He wasn't "outed" by the media because they felt they couldn't run the story without corroberation, which they were'nt getting from him because he was not made available for questions from the media. This was by his own choice as he said he didn't want the story to be about him more than the team. Exactly as any team would prefer it to be.
It's true that he got ahead of the situation because he had no real choice. The NFL, unlike the NCAA, requires players to be available to the media and as he doesn't hide the fact that he's gay it was entirely appropriate (whether beneficial to him or not) to make the announcement now while there is plenty of time for teams to digest the information before the draft. Would you prefer he waited until after the draft?
Hawktawk wrote:As I stated earlier there are comments from a teammate saying the locker room was definitely divided unlike the description Sam had given.
If you're going to keep saying this, provide a link. I watch all the NFL news content I can fit into my off time and I haven't heard this.Hawktawk wrote:I do not think gays should "come out" anymore than I think heterosexuals should publicly discuss their favorite positions in the sack or their various conquests.
A ridiculous comparison. Nobody wants to know if you're hetero or how you go about it but being the first openly gay draft prospect in NFL history is news and the press conference was the only real right thing to do unless you're advocating that all homosexuals should stay in the closet so you don't have to feel uncomfortable about it. But that can't be, because that would make you a bigot, and you just said you're not.
Hawktawk wrote:Like I say I'm sick of the league being some sort of vehicle for social engineering. As a guy who is first and foremost a Hawks fan there is no way on earth I want this team being a guinea pig for this guy and his media circus and potentially destroying the team chemistry.
Hawktawk wrote:See Bob, fans like me and GMs who care only about team chemistry and winning are damned if we do and damned if we don't. If we don't want to be labeled as homophobes or bigots we have to love this guy on draft day, whether he can really play or not. Sorry I'm not playing the game.
kalibane wrote:Who cares if there were some guys who were not 100% supportive of him being homesexual? There is no such thing as a locker room where everyone agrees with everything all the time. There will always be people who talk behind others' backs. The take away from the Mizzou lockerroom was that as a unit they were supportive enough that tormenting him over his sexual orientation was not acceptable and that it in no way impacted the team's ability to play well.
kalibane wrote:This has no zero correlation to the Rooney Rule btw.
kalibane wrote:Hawk,
I'm sorry but I think you are completely off base and are rationalizing your position on this. Who cares if there were some guys who were not 100% supportive of him being homesexual? There is no such thing as a locker room where everyone agrees with everything all the time. There will always be people who talk behind others' backs. The take away from the Mizzou lockerroom was that as a unit they were supportive enough that tormenting him over his sexual orientation was not acceptable and that it in no way impacted the team's ability to play well. Not to mention that your source is Facebook of all places.
You admitted yourself the story was going to come out regardless. I heard on NFL Sirius people were poking around the senior bowl asking about it. Front offices knew. It wasn't a secret and so it was a matter of time before they ran the story. I have no idea how you think this boosts his draft stock. There isn't a GM or coach in the world who wants to use one of their 7 precious draft choices as PR chip (and certainly not now considering the Seahawks are the new "blueprint" and they have gotten so much out of late round draft choices). He wanted the story to come out on his terms, plain and simple. I guess it's caluculated by the strict definition of the word but it doesn't enhance his draft status in any way. As one player on the Jets said recently, if drafting this guy destroys a lockerroom it's an immature lockerroom.
This has no zero correlation to the Rooney Rule btw.
RiverDog wrote:I hope you don't 'shut your yap' after your last post, hawktalk. I may not agree with you on everything, but your viewpoint is worth hearing.
IMO the only way this becomes an issue is if both of two things occur: (1). Sams is successful on the field, and at least starts. (2) Sams plays his hand in the same manner Tebow played his hand, in other words, uses his on field success to promote his personal agenda.
Hawktawk wrote:RiverDog wrote:I hope you don't 'shut your yap' after your last post, hawktalk. I may not agree with you on everything, but your viewpoint is worth hearing.
IMO the only way this becomes an issue is if both of two things occur: (1). Sams is successful on the field, and at least starts. (2) Sams plays his hand in the same manner Tebow played his hand, in other words, uses his on field success to promote his personal agenda.
Just got done watching MRob, Mebane, and Big Red on NFL network. This issue was discussed. All three Seahawks thought there would be some issues, as did the host Willie Mcginest. His takeaway comment was that not everyone is comfortable with the situation and that they SHOULD NOT BE JUDGED for feeling that way. Mrob talked about how hard it is to be a rook with all the hazing everyone goes through to begin with and how difficult it would be to add Sams additional challenge to that mix. Red had perhaps the most profound comments when he discussed how the D line constantly chirps and goofs one another to stay strong. He is worried about whether they could engage in that type of banter with Sam without being subjected to a backlash. It seemed clear to me after watching the segment that Seattle would hardly be a soft landing spot for Sam.I don't think its going to be easy for him anywhere. Its going to take time.
Things change though. On Feb 2nd RW won a SB title and it was not mentioned that he is only the second African American QB to do so. It will be that way for openly gay NFL players too someday, but not right now IMO.
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