Aseahawkfan wrote:I'm about where you're at. I'm wondering if that many sexual assaults haven't been reported. Are men doing this that often? What the heck is going on. Why would women think it was acceptable to not report such instances if they are sure at the time that it was wrong and sexual assault. Are we not teaching young women what sexual assault Is? What's going on here? This movement is crazy. In my own life, I've never done anything what I've heard. I've never seen it. I've never had it told to me save a story later on in life. If someone did these things to a female I know, I would address it on the spot. I'm not seeing how all this behavior is swept under a seemingly very dirty, huge carpet.
I understand rape victims being reluctant to testify, and to a lesser degree, report other sexual assaults. Not having personally experienced being a female in this world, I can't comprehend the psychological impact being a sexual assault victim entails, but I take other's word that it is horrifying. But it can't be used as a reason to trump another's individual rights.
There are some true scum out there, like Cosby and Weissman, but people are getting painted with the same brush stroke and are having their lives altered by unsupported claims from decades ago by allegations without any supporting evidence. Take Matt Patricia. He nearly had his career destroyed because of an unsupported allegation from nearly 2 decades ago, and there wasn't even an accusor that was willing to come forward. It all came about because of a newspaper reporter out on a fishing expedition looking for a story that would net him some readers.
True sexual predators are seldom one and done. Most, like Cosby and Weismann, or going back to Jerry Sandusky, have multiple, repeated encounters that in those cases, stretched over decades. I had a boss at work that was rumored for years to have accosted women while on the job, rumors that circulated at two completely different work environments, and finally, someone turned him in, claiming that he exposed himself to her. It was bascically a his word against hers, but there had been so many rumors over a very long period of time and from different groups of workers that I believed the accusation. He lost his job, and probably should have stood trial.
That's not the case with Kavanaugh. I'm not saying that I necessarily believe his denials, just that it's not enough to make the accusation believable, requiring more evidence, at least in my mind, before I reach a conclusion.